Thursday, December 29, 2005

Behind the Curve, Again

Five years ago, a global evangelical ministry asked a group of youth workers how to become relevant to young people. We suggested leveraging the power of the internet to create a "virtual youth center" where kids could share interests and ideas, find their voice, and connect. Several months later they commissioned a creative brief unpacking the idea. We called it "MyLife.com." The brief was scheduled to go before the ministry's Board in September 2001, but 9/11 derailed it. Subsequent management and program changes kept the idea shelved.

Fast forward five years, and the cover of Business Week heralds "The MySpace Generation" (12/12/05):
"Preeminent among these virtual hangouts is MySpace.com, whose membership has nearly quadrupled since January alone, to 40 million members. Youngsters log on so obsessively that MySpace ranked No. 15 on the entire U.S. Internet in terms of page hits in October, according to Nielsen//NetRatings. Millions also hang out at other up-and-coming networks such as Facebook.com, which connects college students, and Xanga.com, an agglomeration of shared blogs. A second tier of some 300 smaller sites, such as Buzz-Oven, Classface.com, and Photobucket.com, operate under -- and often inside or next to -- the larger ones.

"Although networks are still in their infancy, experts think they're already creating new forms of social behavior that blur the distinctions between online and real-world interactions. In fact, today's young generation largely ignores the difference. Most adults see the Web as a supplement to their daily lives. They tap into information, buy books or send flowers, exchange apartments, or link up with others who share passions for dogs, say, or opera. But for the most part, their social lives remain rooted in the traditional phone call and face-to-face interaction.

"The MySpace generation, by contrast, lives comfortably in both worlds at once. Increasingly, America's middle- and upper-class youth use social networks as virtual community centers, a place to go and sit for a while (sometimes hours). While older folks come and go for a task, Adams and her social circle are just as likely to socialize online as off. This is partly a function of how much more comfortable young people are on the Web: Fully 87% of 12- to 17-year-olds use the Internet, vs. two-thirds of adults, according to the Pew Internet & American Life Project.

"Teens also use many forms of media simultaneously. Fifteen- to eighteen-year-olds average nearly 6 1/2 hours a day watching TV, playing video games, and surfing the Net, according to a recent Kaiser Family Foundation survey. A quarter of that time, they're multitasking. The biggest increase: computer use for activities such as social networking, which has soared nearly threefold since 2000, to 1 hour and 22 minutes a day on average." Article.
Is it petty and childish to say, "ARGH"?

How can we engage kids in this space that 40 MILLION (and growing) finding so fascinating?

Tuesday, December 20, 2005

Coalition Co-Chairs pray with Dr. Graham minutes before his final sermon

Back in June, I wrote (at my blog) about praying with Dr. Billy Graham 25 minutes before he preached his last Crusade sermon. I received the pictures today, just in time for Christmas!


Crusade chairman Dr. A. R. Bernard introducing
Dimas Salaberrios and Jeremy Del Rio to Dr. Graham




Kneeling to pray with Dr. Graham


(L-R) Jeremy, Dimas, Rev. Richard Del Rio, Rev. Bob Johannsen, and Dr. Bernard

This was one of those God moments that I'll remember for the rest of my life.

For more on the Greater New York Billy Graham Crusade, check out my crusade diary.

Sunday, December 18, 2005

Congratulations, Incoming Coalition Leaders

The December Coalition meeting saw the election of a new leadership council for January 2006-June 2007.

Congratulations to those elected (listed in alphabetical order, with affiliations):
Ralph Castillo (Youth Explosion)
Jeremy Del Rio (Generation Xcel)
Tracy Ellis-Ward (Fellowship of Christian Athletes)
Liana Robinson (Beauty of the Heart Charm School)
Esteban Rivera (Latino Pastoral Action Center)
Marcus Smalls (World Vision New York)
Walter Sotelo (Citivision)
Julio Vasquez (DJ Who Ministries)
Kevin Young (Student Venture)

Thursday, December 15, 2005

In their own words

"Why should I care so much for everyone else when no one gives a s!*# about me?"

"y do guys have to say the wrong things, @ the wrong time, @ the wrong places...just to say that they like u but make u feel like s!*#?"

"When you are sad, ....I will get you drunk and help you plot revenge against the sorry b@$!@&! who made you sad."

"Why is it that life sucks? Why couldn't I have just been happy with it when I had it?"

"every freaking thing is going wrong. because of my mother who doesn't freaking listen. ... i can't stand her!"

"Ima turn you straight......and blow your back out....lol"

Welcome to the world of teenagers, in their own words. These are just a few of the online comments generated by teens I know. They're good kids -- great kids, actually -- but they're finding their way and trying to make sense of emotional conflicts, relationship dramas, family strife, sexuality, purpose. All the important stuff that too many adults never figure out either.

Don't condescend to them or resent them or give up on them.

Seek to understand them. Hear them. Forgive them. Restore them. Guide them. Love them.

Easier said than done? What do you think?